Think you know sex games? Think deeper.
A book of intimate games for gay men who want more spark, connection, and presence in their sex life.
Who is this for?
You have had great sex but still felt alone after
You scroll more than you connect
You want passion and closeness, not just one of them
You miss curiosity, play, and real attention in sex
What is Play With Me
Play With Me is a collection of intimacy games. Each one offers a different way to connect, on your own, with a partner, or in a group.
Some are playful. Some go deeper than you expect. All of them are designed to slow things down and bring more presence into your sex life.
What you’ll find inside
Story based games that help you slow down and actually feel what’s happening
Bold illustrations that spark imagination and shift the mood
New ways to touch, explore, and play without falling into the same patterns
Moments that bring both bodies and emotions closer
Simple exercises that take the pressure off and bring back real desire
190 pages, high-quality print, hardcover
🏆 Funded on Kickstarter ➔
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Why I made this book
I’m Zari, an artist, photographer, and someone who has always been curious about how we truly connect.
Over time, I gathered games, ideas, and ways of approaching intimacy, shaped by experience, struggle, curiosity, and exploration. Play With Me is where they came together.
From readers
"Thought it was just a fun idea. Turns out it actually changed the whole vibe between us. We actually stopped rushing. I didn't know that was something I was missing until it happened."
- Matthew, NYC
"You don't realize how repetitive things get until something shifts it. This game totaly did."
- Samuel
"The role play made the whole night more fun. The artworks are 🔥. Thanks Zari. "
- Jeff, Australia
A closer look
A small piece of the experience.
Read a few pages before you decide.
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Beyond the book
The book includes this signature illustration style throughout.
Original drawings and limited posters are also available separately.
Book Publication: 2025
ISBN: 978-618-88350-0-9
Cover: Hardcover
Format: 13.5 x 20.5 cm
Language: English
Author: Zari
Pages: 192
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